Mind & Psychology TraumaAddictionChildhoodHealing

Dr. Gabor Maté: Your Trauma Is Secretly Controlling You!

Guest: Dr. Gabor Maté — 2025-10-05 — 4.5M views

Physician, author of In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts

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Episode Summary

Dr. Maté discusses how childhood trauma shapes mental and physical health.

Top Takeaways

  1. Healing requires safety, connection, and the willingness to feel what you've been avoiding
  2. The body keeps the score: unexpressed emotions don't go away; they get stored and expressed as illness
  3. Saying 'no' is a complete sentence—boundaries are essential for health
  4. Compassionate inquiry asks: 'What happened to you?' not 'What's wrong with you?'
  5. Authenticity is the antidote to many modern illnesses—suppressing your true self makes you sick

Books Mentioned

The Myth of Normal Get it on Amazon →
When the Body Says No Get it on Amazon →

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